Friday, November 25, 2011

Resilience...............



when you are upset and feeling lonely and you are about to make Guinness world records of being awake and not sleeping then its surely  difficult time.......



in today's time of sheer pressure to perform , live up to our own expectation and lots of stress (be it emotional, financial or work related), We need to maintain some semblance of balance and some sense that we are steering the ship of our life in the ocean of moments which is full of greed, lies , opportunities and threats all around......in such times , when life throws curve balls , its only friends offer softer landing where you can be safe and sure....

friends o friends... they uplift , they console , they pull your legs, they support in many ways ....with lightening speed of technology at your finger tips , world in your palms and pockets you still miss real friends though (how i am missing today)..... you go online on yahoo or facebook or many such other social sites , you are flooded with friends , but at times real friend is surely missing where you can lean on actually.....

the best time you have had starts unfolding in your mind and makes it even worse to accept that where are those people and why are they not around anymore , questions creates more doubts of our own sanity or about their worthiness, and irrespective of the answer you are loser anyway  ....sighs.....

the state of isolation is very hazardous as long as its giving you feeling of being lonely , in spite being surrounded by people you find yourself aloof is really worrisome .....perhaps people around you may be more selfish and self centered , whom you consider your bestest friend may turn out to be the worst living being who creates sense of discontent  within you by being hyper critical and judgmental....  Resilience is what we need to cultivate , with better things around.........